welcome to my space
-lauren/xarlu
-27 years old
-she/her, they/them
-bisexual
-bigender (i identify as a woman and as nonbinary interchangeably)
before you follow!
-basic dni criteria apply
-i tend to follow, rt, and say nsfw things/accounts. if this bothers you/you are a minor, don't follow me. curate your own online experience, i beg you
-please have your age somewhere on your account. i will softblock if you don't and will hardblock if you insist or if i find out you're a minor
-i don't always follow back! nothing against you if i don't, i promise
-i rt a lot of kpop, namely bts and stray kids. i casually listen to a lot of other groups/soloists as well
-i do not do fanwars. i don't want them on my tl, i don't engage in them; the negativity is never worth it
-on the topic of stray kids: as a stay who has joined the fandom in 2021, stray kids are eight, not nine. i don't care about kim woojin. this is as divisive i will get on the matter. if you're following me for this group and disagree, don't follow me
-i engage in shipping. no, i don't think it's real, no, i don't care what you think. if you follow me and see any of this on your tl and aren't comfortable with it or any ships you see, mute me, unfollow me, block me, i don't care what you do. just don't make your discomfort my problem
-i'm not solely a kpop account. i have other interests and will tweet and rt things about them. i will also tweet about irl things from time to time. again, if you see it and aren't comfortable with it, unfollow, block, mute, do whatever
-i may occasionally speak out on american politics. i don't like doing so but sometimes i am spurred to words
-on shipping discourse: i don't care for it and i guarantee you i have seen any argument on it somewhere on tumblr years ago applied to a different ship for a different fandom. everyone does it differently, there is no correct or superior way to ship
-if you follow me for anything related to a single ship, be advised that's probably not my only ship. do with that information what you will
-if you talk to me about a ship on the timeline, please censor any names (this is only regarding kpop ships)
-any harassment of me or my friends for any reason will not be tolerated. i will reply if needed, block if it's just not worth the headache, and report if it continues past that point. we can be civil on the internet, it's not hard
-trolls will be blocked on sight
kpop info!
bts
-bias: kim namjoon (rm)
-bias wrecker: jung hoseok (j-hope)
stray kids
-bias(es): bang chan, lee yongbok (felix)
-bias wrecker(s): lee minho (lee know), seo changbin
casual listens
boy groups: exo, monsta x, oneus, nct, ateez
girl groups: mamamoo, twice, (g)i-dle, itzy, dreamcatcher
bands/co-ed: epik high, kard
soloists: sunmi, hyuna, holland, chungha, iu, mrshll, taemin (i know he's in shinee but i've only listened to his solo music, i need to fix this one day)